Skip to main content



Updating this blog.

I am archiving all my old work and writing new pieces here: 

Meraki is the updated work.  Eat, Drink, and Be Married is the (slowly) archived pieces from this site.

Currently, I am watching Modern Love. I'm excited about it because I used to love reading the stories in the New York Times.  I am folding clothes as I watch this show. My friend Tasha told me about it. We've been friends since we were 16 years old. She is someone that does a far better job at keeping her ear and eyes to the culture. And she does such a phenomenal job at keeping me updated. But I think the coolest part about it all is that she is someone that knows me well enough to suggest stories that are so aligned with who I am. It's funny how relationships work - some for moments, some for years, some for a lifetime. And we never know which relationship is which (short, long, deep, shallow) until it's all said and done.   We will always have Paris.

Update: there are no women of c…

Latest Posts

A little video throwback!

Soundtrack: Ice Cubes

Stress Relief

The Rhythm of Slow Living

Off to a new adventure....


Diversity & Love 


Living Beyond the Schedule

Active Dreaming